掉8斤, HAHAHAHA~~~~没什写的,上图la ,我DE小号脸--

Why stop celebrating each others choices and start to qualify them?

Is acceptance real such a childish concept?

Or do we have right all along?

When do we stop being free to be u and me?

I i hold a handful of candy, with a big smile on my face, day-dreaming .Then, a few minutes later, I was at the hospital by fillng my tooth, Feb 14^th. Valentine’s Day as a big reminder to singles that they’re still without their “plus one”. I’m getting to joy about that. Joy of myself, my positive attitude of being single a long way time and got some "dates" from my dear friends who want to share the day with me. I appreciated it very much, Thanks for u all ,my friends, owning urs, I’ve never ever felt that lonely.  

 

Eating too much sweetmeat, I had appointment with a dentist on V-Day. Early morning I went into the hospital. As I got into the elevator going down, I noticed this elderly couple, well into their late 70's early-mid 80's maybe. The man was gripping onto the handle bars of the wheelchair his wife was sitting in. Both were bundled up quite snug in their winter coats. There was a gentleness in the way he slowly moved her chair into the elevator. The way he spoke to her. They were talking about how many boxes of meds they should get from the doctor. Nothing special, but it was the pure simplicity of it, that casual exchange of deliberation between two people that you know were once young and vital (and probably had some crazy memories in their youth together) that made me think about love and how time cannot touch what is unconditional.

 

It melted my heart just watching them. Through sickness and health. They have each other. I could feel the love, and I'm sure the woman pushing the buttons in the elevator felt it too. When we're young, we often place importance on things which matter the least. If you're anything like me, then you've probably made lists of qualities you want in your significant other, right down to height, diameter of shoulders and choice of cologne!

 

But that is NOT real. When you're well into the Golden years of retirement is it really gonna matter that your hubby no longer has buns of steel or that your darling wife has "creeping crepe neck syndrome"? (as Jan Wong once described Suzanne Somers...ouch!. Love is an absolute truth. It doesn't change and cannot be based on superficial temporary things, like a checklist devoid of endearing qualities. That being said, appearance is tied to attraction, and initially, it is a physical thing. But substance and good conversation goes a much longer way.

 

小红鼠要把世界的大同做为精神界上的最高追求.

节前定做的礼服裙忘了取,导致过年没能穿上.  不过设计的小裙子很有看头,--抄袭了很多大牌元素,值得期待哦

唯一不变的,就是---自拍,再接再厉,继续提高.呼呼.